This is my third week of school. As I explained in my last post, the process for registering for classes at METU is very complicated. All my classes except Turkish are once a week, for three hours each. Turkish is twice a week for three hours in Kizilay. I am also taking an online class for Pitzer. I now officially have my finalized schedule:
Monday:
9:30 AM – 12:30 PM Modernity and the Idea of Freedom (Political Philosophy)
6 – 9 PM Turkish Two
Tuesday:
9:30 AM – 12:30 PM Sociology of Science and Technology
1:30 PM – 4:30 PM Contemporary Turkey: State and Society (International Relations)
Wednesday:
6 – 9 PM Turkish Two
Thursday:
12:40 – 3:30 PM The Secularization Debate (Sociology)
So far the classes have a lot of readings, and they each have drawn from philosophers like Marx and Weber. With the exception of my Turkish class, the classes are taught in English. Sometimes my professors will go back and forth between Turkish and English to make sure that everyone understands. The teachers have been very welcoming and make an effort to include us (the exchange students). There is at least one other exchange student in each of my classes. I am hoping to branch out though and meet the Turkish students in my classes. The few that I have met are really interesting. A few common questions I get when I tell them I am from Seattle are, “do you know about the riots in 1999?,” in regard to the WTO riots, or, “Do you really have a great underground music scene?”
My dorm:
The dorms at METU are fairly strict compared to Pitzer. I live in an all female dorm, and men are not allowed in. There are no co-ed dorms on campus. Boys are allowed in the café in my dorm. However, once a boy came to visit a girl in the study room (which is next to the café) and he got yelled at. It is a bit ironic because sometimes I see cats walking around the dorm, which would be against the rules at Pitzer.
There is a little glass gate to get into the room portion of the dorm, and you must swipe your ID card to get in. This is fairly typical of dorms in America. However, I did not have an ID card for the first two weeks. Sometimes I just had to stand and wait for twenty minutes for someone to open it or attempt to jump over the gate (I looked pretty silly). Usually there was someone at the front desk to open it.
The front desk is where you sign up for a time to do laundry or to request maintenance. If you are planning to travel on the weekend and not be in the dorm you must sign out at this desk. Every morning a woman comes into the dorms to check if you are in your bed. I suppose she is also checking to see if someone else is in your bed (joke). I have been told that because this school has the top 1% of Turkish students they are ensuring the precious students safely. However, if you come back past midnight (any night of the week) you must sign in at the front desk. I have heard many rumors of what happens if you come back past this curfew more than three or ten times. The dorm “mudur” or manager may call home, they may kick you out of housing, or they may have a talk with you. I really do not know what’s true. What I do know is that this curfew means the library closes early! So I often sit upstairs in the kitchen or study-room for late night work.
Dorm meals:
Almost every night I have been cooking dinner with some of the Pitzer girls. There is a large kitchen in my dorm with six stovetops. There are no ovens so we have been getting pretty creative. So far we have made stir-fries, home fries, lentil soup, crepes, pasta, pasta sauce from scratch, fried rice, steamed vegetables, etc. There is also a panini maker so I make a lot of warm sandwiches with vegetables, usually for lunch. There is a small grocery store on campus, but if I want anything “exotic” like soy sauce I must take a bus or walk a while to a large grocery store in a mall. There is also a huge open market off campus that is open twice a week. I go there to get fresh vegetables. Right now tomatoes, broccoli, and eggplant are a staple in my diet. This week I was able to find fresh spinach! Everything is organic and very reasonably priced. I bought two kilograms of onions for 1.5 lira – that is about 25 onions! Needless to say, I will be eating onions for a long time!
On days that I do not feel like cooking or I do not have time there are many cafes on campus. Apparently the café in my dorm is the best. I was just there and bought freshly squeezed orange juice and baklava! Each café has a buffet with a selection of hot and cold options. Occasionally I treat myself and have dinner in the city with friends. Though I was concerned about my diet before I left, I now know that I will never go hungry in Turkey!
Görüsürüz (See ya!)
P.S. if you have any vegetarian/vegan stovetop recipes please email them to me!
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Monday, September 27, 2010
Kerkenes and Hattusa
On Wednesday September 15th I moved from my host family to temporary dorms at the Middle East Technical University (METU). This was bittersweet. I was sad to leave my host family who had been so welcoming. And yet I was excited to start my one-week orientation at METU and meet all the international students. There are around150 international and Erasmus students (European exchange students) from all over the world; including, Germany, The Netherlands, Spain, Iran, Iraq, Kosovo, etc... I moved into my permanent dorm on Monday September 20th. I share a small room with a bunk bed, two desks, mini fridge, closet, and bathroom with a shower. My roommate is a Turkish girl from Istanbul, who studying food engineering. So far everything is working out great.
I had the option for the weekend to go with all of the exchange students to a beach town on the Mediterranean for 200 lira or to go visit an ongoing excavation site near Yozgat (a city five hours East of Ankara). There is an ongoing joke here among the Pitzer students that I like ancient ruins. Of course, I chose to go visit the excavation and ended up spending only 20 lira!
On Thursday afternoon I arrived at Kerkenes (the site). It is an ancient Iron Age city that had been burned around the 600 BCE. The city is very peculiar because of its location geographically and chronologically. There is not much known about the 600s in Anatolia so the findings in Kerkenes may unlock some mysteries. The Anatolia region is considered the western peninsula of Asia, which is most of Turkey. Thursday, Friday, and Saturday I stayed with METU professors Geoffrey and Françoise Summers. I stayed in their “dig” house on their eco center. While I was there I was able to visit the archaeological site atop a mountain engulfed in clouds twice. I also was taught to cook on a solar stove and oven. All in all, it was a great learning experience and I met a lot of really interesting people who had excavated and traveled all over the world.
On Sunday morning Professor Geoffrey gave a tour of the Yozgat museum (where many of the Kerkenes findings are held). I joined the tour and met a group of 10 Americans professors who were heading to Hattusa and then back to Ankara in the evening. They invited me to come with them, so I did. Hattusa is an ancient Bronze Age city and the capitol of the Hittite Empire. It was very well excavated and beautiful! The group got back to Ankara around 8:30 pm. A very nice women gave me a ride back to METU – where I ate a vegan pizza, skyped, and went to bed!
Today, Monday September 27th is my first day of classes. It has been a tedious and long process of getting approved to take classes. I had to email and meet with many professors. Today I will get a form signed by the president of the department, the secretary, and professors. Then I will take it to the international cooperation’s office who will send it to the registrar's office. By the end of the week my schedule will be finalized and I will post my classes so you can see what I am studying!
I have been posting photos of my various adventures on my facebook. There are currently three albums that you can take a look at.
I hope you are all doing well!
Photo 1: An entrance gate and road to the city of Kerkenes.
Photo 2: Solar oven and stove.
Photo 3: A row of gods etched into a temple wall in Hattusa.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Athens and Aegina
We arrived in Athens at 9 AM on Wednesday morning. We found the Athens Backpackers hostel and had lunch. Getting off the metro for our hostel we could see the Acropolis!
Cydney and I bought passes to see seven of the ancient ruins in Athens. We then proceeded to climb up to the Acropolis and walk to all seven sites.
From the top of the acropolis we could see two mountains. The next day we climbed those mountains and went to a flee market, where I bought Greek sandals. The first mountain we saw was Filopappos Hill (which had these ruins), and the second was Lykavittos Hill (which had the Church of St. George). From both mountains you could see the Acropolis and the entire city!
On Thursday night we had dinner and stayed with our friend Melanie. Melanie is a Junior at Pomona and studying abroad in Greece. On Friday we went with Melanie and some of the people she is on the Greek program with to Aegina. It is a smaller Greek island about a 45 minute ferry ride from Athens. We spent two days and one night exploring the island. The first day we went swimming and hung out on the beach. The second day (Saturday) we went to the Temple of Aphaea (Zeus’s daughter's temple) and a huge Greek Orthodox church and monastery. Then it started to rain heavily and we went back to Athens.
Saturday night we had dinner and walked around Athens. Sunday was Cydney’s birthday so we slept in and walked around through the flea market again. We also went to a fancy ice-cream shop, where everything is handmade.
Sunday night we had dinner with Melanie and friends to celebrate. Then Cydney and I went back to the hostel for the night. We had to go to sleep early on Sunday so that we could catch a 4:30 AM bus to the airport on Monday morning.
To conclude, Greece was amazing! The people were very kind and laid back. The atmosphere of Athens was so nice -- life there goes at a great pace: not too fast and not too slow. It was a great break from Turkey, and the food was delicious. If you go, I would definitely recommend eating zucchini balls and spanakopita. In general I recommend Greece as a place to visit to anyone with strong knees and looking for a great historical place to relax!
Monday, September 13, 2010
Istanbul (Last Weekend)
I apologize for the delay with this post. I actually wrote this a week ago, but have been traveling and have had little internet access.
I must preface this post to say that I took over 350 photos in Istanbul and I literally have 1,000 words to describe each one. Did you do the math? This is going to be a long post. I will break it down though and only talk about the mosques in this post and then the other historical sites and experiences at in a later post (I also went to the underground cisterns, the Grand Bazaar, the Spice Bazaar, and some historical neighborhoods).
I spent two days in Istanbul and have decided that I must go back! It is a six-hour, 20 USD, bus ride to Istanbul from Ankara, which makes it really convenient to get there. We took a night bus there on Thursday and arrived on Friday morning around 7 or 8 AM. We then took a metro and a tram from the bus station to Sultanahmet. Sultanahmet is the central area of Istanbul where the most famous Mosques reside. As soon as we got off the tram and I saw the Aya Sofya (Hagia Sophia) and almost cried.

Emperor Justinian built the Aya Sofya during the Byzantine Empire. Originally it was created as a church. When the Ottoman Turks conquered Constantinople in 1453, the Aya Sofya was converted into a mosque. When this happened many of the original mosaics were covered and the stone crosses in the walls had been etched out. There were also many additions to the already enormous building, including the four minarets that surround it. The Aya Sofya is so big that it could fit the Statue of Liberty inside! Today much of the Aya Sofya has been restored, so you can see both Christian and Muslim icons. It is absolutely breathtaking! It is as if the US Capitol building dome had been replaced because of fire damage -- It remains stunning. In 9th grade at University Prep I did a report on the Aya Sofya, which contributes to why this place meant so much to me. I was literally in awe when I saw it. I am also obsessed with architecture and ancient ruins and this was the one place I had to see in the two days! Like most of Istanbul when you walk inside the Aya Sofia you can actually feel the spirituality and the history. Thousands of people walked the steps I walked inside and around the Aya Sofya, and I am not just talking about other tourists! It was remarkable!
I could continue typing about the Aya Sofia and how amazed I am, but I will move on. I actually went into the Aya Sofia on the second day of our trip. On the first day we entered the Blue Mosque. It is another amazing mosque across from Aya Sofia. It is still in use as a mosque and when we went inside many people were getting ready for afternoon prayers. Before entering they had everyone take off their shoes and had females cover their legs. Although it is an active mosque the crowds made it feel less special to me (I went to the Aya Sofia an hour before it closed; the sun was setting and I could roam without crowds). However, the tourism cannot take away from its beauty. The entire rotunda of the Blue Mosque is covered with painted tiles. The Blue Mosque gets its named for the many blue tiles that adorn it, however its real name is the Sultan Ahmed Mosque.
What is truly amazing about Istanbul is that there are so many detailed mosques literally across the street from each other. There are thousands of them! I cannot believe that all of them become filled, especially because today Istanbul is so secular and filled with tourist attractions. Yet somehow they do and they are all stunning. Besides the architecture, one of the neatest things about the mosques are the calls to prayer. In Ankara I hear the call to prayer from usually one, maybe two mosques depending on my location. In Istanbul you hear the call to prayer from multiple mosques. It is almost an echo of melodious Arabic words being sung over the city. After one voice stops another one begins and then another. Sometimes they overlap and sometimes they are in unison. It has become apparent that the best Muezzen (call to prayer singers) are sung from mosques in Istanbul. The prayer goes off five times a day and it is always a beautiful symphony of voices.
If there is one place I recommend that you visit in Turkey, it is Istanbul!
P.S. It has been a week since I actually wrote this post. In that time I have traveled to Greece! It was awesome! I have many photo's and stories that I will fill you in on later!
I must preface this post to say that I took over 350 photos in Istanbul and I literally have 1,000 words to describe each one. Did you do the math? This is going to be a long post. I will break it down though and only talk about the mosques in this post and then the other historical sites and experiences at in a later post (I also went to the underground cisterns, the Grand Bazaar, the Spice Bazaar, and some historical neighborhoods).
I spent two days in Istanbul and have decided that I must go back! It is a six-hour, 20 USD, bus ride to Istanbul from Ankara, which makes it really convenient to get there. We took a night bus there on Thursday and arrived on Friday morning around 7 or 8 AM. We then took a metro and a tram from the bus station to Sultanahmet. Sultanahmet is the central area of Istanbul where the most famous Mosques reside. As soon as we got off the tram and I saw the Aya Sofya (Hagia Sophia) and almost cried.
Emperor Justinian built the Aya Sofya during the Byzantine Empire. Originally it was created as a church. When the Ottoman Turks conquered Constantinople in 1453, the Aya Sofya was converted into a mosque. When this happened many of the original mosaics were covered and the stone crosses in the walls had been etched out. There were also many additions to the already enormous building, including the four minarets that surround it. The Aya Sofya is so big that it could fit the Statue of Liberty inside! Today much of the Aya Sofya has been restored, so you can see both Christian and Muslim icons. It is absolutely breathtaking! It is as if the US Capitol building dome had been replaced because of fire damage -- It remains stunning. In 9th grade at University Prep I did a report on the Aya Sofya, which contributes to why this place meant so much to me. I was literally in awe when I saw it. I am also obsessed with architecture and ancient ruins and this was the one place I had to see in the two days! Like most of Istanbul when you walk inside the Aya Sofia you can actually feel the spirituality and the history. Thousands of people walked the steps I walked inside and around the Aya Sofya, and I am not just talking about other tourists! It was remarkable!
I could continue typing about the Aya Sofia and how amazed I am, but I will move on. I actually went into the Aya Sofia on the second day of our trip. On the first day we entered the Blue Mosque. It is another amazing mosque across from Aya Sofia. It is still in use as a mosque and when we went inside many people were getting ready for afternoon prayers. Before entering they had everyone take off their shoes and had females cover their legs. Although it is an active mosque the crowds made it feel less special to me (I went to the Aya Sofia an hour before it closed; the sun was setting and I could roam without crowds). However, the tourism cannot take away from its beauty. The entire rotunda of the Blue Mosque is covered with painted tiles. The Blue Mosque gets its named for the many blue tiles that adorn it, however its real name is the Sultan Ahmed Mosque.
What is truly amazing about Istanbul is that there are so many detailed mosques literally across the street from each other. There are thousands of them! I cannot believe that all of them become filled, especially because today Istanbul is so secular and filled with tourist attractions. Yet somehow they do and they are all stunning. Besides the architecture, one of the neatest things about the mosques are the calls to prayer. In Ankara I hear the call to prayer from usually one, maybe two mosques depending on my location. In Istanbul you hear the call to prayer from multiple mosques. It is almost an echo of melodious Arabic words being sung over the city. After one voice stops another one begins and then another. Sometimes they overlap and sometimes they are in unison. It has become apparent that the best Muezzen (call to prayer singers) are sung from mosques in Istanbul. The prayer goes off five times a day and it is always a beautiful symphony of voices.
If there is one place I recommend that you visit in Turkey, it is Istanbul!
P.S. It has been a week since I actually wrote this post. In that time I have traveled to Greece! It was awesome! I have many photo's and stories that I will fill you in on later!
Thursday, September 2, 2010
True Story:
There are about 40 fish in the fish tank at my host family's house. Ayse explained that she bought male and female fish and that some of them had babies. Right now I am watching an aggressive goldfish chase after a lot of the smaller fish. He is especially going after a pregnant fish and a white fish! I leave the house at 10:15 PM for the metro to the bus station, so that I can catch my 12 AM bus to Istanbul. I am so excited that I am actually watching fish fight!
Pazartesi ve Sali (Monday and Tuesday)
Monday:
I had a five-day weekend! Monday was Turkey’s Independence Day, which meant no school! Ayse’s youngest sister, Hava, was visiting the family. On Monday we had a pretty lazy morning; we watched parts of the holiday parades on TV, watched some Turkish soap operas, played with the children, and relaxed. Around 3PM we packed up Hava’s car and went to a buyuk (big) park. My host family does not have a car so this was a treat. I do not know if having barbeques on Turkeys Independence Day is a tradition like the one we have on July Fourth but the day was very reminiscent of an American Independence day celebration.
At the park we picked out a covered picnic table and set up. The family hung a hammock up so that the baby could rest in it during dinner. Then Erden (my 7-year-old host brother) and Nisa (my 4-year-old host cousin) went off to play in the park with Hava’s husband. The park had a mini Great Wall of China for them to play on. I stayed with Ayse, Hava, the grandmother, and the baby to prepare dinner and play volleyball. We cooked green peppers, eggplant, and chicken in an outdoor oven. Then we waited for sundown and to hear the evening prayer projected from the mosques so that we could eat (the children and I had already started). We also had salads, breads, water, coca-cola, etc. (Quick Tangent: I explained in a pervious post that although I don’t like soda I drink it when they give it to me. Well, I see tons of commercials on the TV here for Coca-Cola. Most of them say something about Coke being a great treat on Ramadan… Advertising’s best? The park was filled with tons of families and they all had Coke and they all waited for sundown to eat.)
After dinner we walked along the lake at the park until we reached a small amusement park. Hava, her husband, Erden, Nisa, and I went in a paddleboat around the lake. I sat in the back with Erden and Nisa. At the beginning Erden would not stop crying! He clenched my hand and was very scared. I don’t know how to say “don't worry” or “its safe” in Turkish so I just kept rubbing his back and saying “tamam,” which means okay. Eventually he brought his head out from his lifejacket to look around, but the entire time he kept holding my hand. Hava and her husband directed us under a waterfall again and again, which didn’t help with calming Erden down, but they were having fun. I tried to explain what the Big Dipper was to my family and they thought I was crazy for pointing at the sky until I finally found the word for constellation in my dictionary.
After that we left the park and went home. We got lost, but eventually found it. Everyone showered. The children had coco puffs for dessert and passed out. All the adults stayed up drinking tea, eating sunflower seeds and tea crackers, talking, and watching the recaps of the World Cup Basketball games (the games are in Ankara and Istanbul and USA won their first game). Around 12:30 AM I was exhausted and went to bed.
Tuesday:
I woke up to the sound of children running around the house and the sun shining into my room. Around 11 AM Cydney’s host family came over for brunch, making our little apartment packed! Cydney and I did our homework while the family caught up (remember that Cydney’s host mother is Ayse’s sister). Then I went in the car with Hava and Cydney’s family back to Kizilay. I explored and bought snacks. It was a pretty low-key weekend.
When I got home for dinner the cousin (third visitor) was back working on the computers. We talked a little about Israel. The 13-year-old cousin and the visitor said that they thought Israel was a threat and aggressive. They also told me that Israel killed babies. I am not joking! I even pulled out my computer and used Google to translate sentences to make sure I heard them correctly. This negativity was very interesting to me. Amhet thought it was fascinating that I knew Hebrew and had not said anything negative. I knew going into this trip that I would hear anti-Israel sentiment. Although I have not heard anything negative about Jews, I guess for the first time in my life I feel like I have to conceal a little piece of me. It is a bit unsettling. However, I feel as though the prospective of the Turkish people is very important for me to learn. As a political studies major, it is an integral part of the reason I chose to come to Turkey. I have been to Israel and it is clearly a place of great importance to me, however choosing to go back to Israel for a semester abroad would not necessarily give me a new prospective or outlook on the way the world works. Being in Turkey allows me to be a better-informed student and citizen of our world. Originally I was looking into going to Egypt to study abroad for a crucial alternative view on the middle east… it is a good thing I am not there because they are having a major blackout! In Turkey I happen to be going to the “Harvard of the Middle East” (over one million people apply to the Middle East Technical University a year and only 1% are admitted). Anyway, there are a lot of interesting politics going on here right now, which I will go more in detail in a later post. I am glad I am here and you should be too! This is allowing me to grow and learn in ways that I could not from a classroom at home. Plus, there are some awesome people here and beautiful places to go! I can’t wait for what I will hear, see, smell, taste, and learn next! Tonight I head to Istanbul!
P.S. The photo at the top from (left to right): Hava's husband, Hava, Nisa, Ayse, Grandmother, and Erden. The photo in the middle (left to right): Grandmother, Hava, Baby Adren, and Ayse.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Kocetepe: The Biggest Mosque in Ankara
Here are some photo's of Kocetepe. It is the mosque I was explaining earlier. It can hold up to 110,000 people at one time. Ayse explained to me that next month she will go there to celebrate Muhammad's ascension to heaven. Under Kocetepe is a very large super market. It is very ironic that I could eat under the mosque while people fast for Ramadan above. Kocetepe is also in Kizilay and has huge boulevards underneath it.
On Friday morning I was walking by Kocetepe with Cydney and we saw huge crowds of men. There were many helicopters circling and police around. We saw that in the middle of the crowd was a man that looked very familiar. The man got in a motorcade. As he drove toward us he opened his window and waved to us. It was the president of Turkey! No one was around us, so the President was personally waving at us!
Some Turkish pronunciations:
*Kocetepe is Ko-ja-te-pe
*Mosque in Turkish is Camii or Ja-a-mee
*Ramadan in Turkish is Ramazan
*Ayse is A-ee-shey
Culture SHOCK!
Over the past week we have had seven visitors staying with my host family. In talking with other program participants that have visitors we have hypothesized that there are probably so many visitors because of Ramadan and because Monday is Turkey's Independence Day. Below are some descriptions of the visitors and my culture shock dilemma...
Visitor Number One:
My host grandmother has five children. I have now met four of them. The first visitor came on Thursday night. His name is Amhet and at 35 years-old he is the second oldest child in my family. He only came to stay for two nights before he went to visit his other siblings in Istanbul. My host grandmother has two daughters living in Ankara, two in Istanbul, and Amhet. He lives in a town about a 7 hour bus ride away, where he works as a surgeon. Amet was a great visitor. He was genuinely interested in who I am and where I am from and tried very hard to communicate with me. Because of his schooling he knew a some English. We were able to have a simple conversations. He explained to me that when my host grandmother forces me to eat more and more when I am full, to just say no! He also explained to me how he already missed his children at his home. Because this is a two-bedroom apartment and there are already three people sharing my host mom's bed (her, the grandmother, and 7-year-old child), Amhet slept in the living room. As it turns out, both couches in the living room convert into beds! The first night he came we went to Emine's house for dinner. Emine is the second to youngest daughter in the family and is hosting another Pitzer student (Cydney). I will draw a family tree and profile the host family I am staying with for you in a later post... Must keep you on your toes somehow!
(Friday night I slept over at Emine's house to spend time with Cydney, to explore the city at night, and use their internet to Skype my family).
Visitor Number Two:
I either didn't quite catch this visitors name or blocked it out. Yesterday afternoon (Sunday), I had just got back from Emine's house and was sitting in the living room coloring with my coloring book with the 7-year-old. All of a sudden a man was sitting at the dinning room table with my host mom. I introduced myself and said nice-to-meet-you all in Turkish! He was wearing hospital scrubs. I asked him if he was a doctor or a nurse and he said a nurse that worked with my host mom. Later I was resting in my room and my host mom (I am just going to start calling her by her name: Ayse) came to get me and asked me to bring my computer. The visitor was setting up internet for her but could not get it to work. Although she had an internet signal, no web page could open. The same thing happened on my computer. However, I had Skype working and showed them. Then Skype failed and we turned off the computers to relax. Ayse and the visitor sit on the couch across from me and we all watched TV.
An hour or so goes by and I turn on my computer again. They start asking me how much money nurses make in the US. I explain that I have no idea. They get frustrated and ask again and I give them a ballpark number of 50,000 dollars. Given that all nurses make different amounts of money depending on their education, specialty, etc. I connect to Skype, and begin Skype-messaging my friend Misa who is currently in Korea on a Fulbright. I tell them I can ask her for a better estimate. The visitor runs over and starts asking why I can Skype but do not have Internet. I say, "I don't know." He asks more questions. I explain that I have Internet, but cannot connect to the web. I explain that for some reason with not email access I have Skype. He keeps asking me, "why?" I keep saying, "I don't know." And it goes on and on and on. He gets louder. He hijacks my dictionary so that I cannot use it to help respond. He waves his arms in the air and gets even louder. He is almost shouting! He is bombarding me with questions in Turkish. I respond, "I don't know!" He sits closer and keeps waving his arms. Then he starts touching my computer screen and pointing at it violently. I had been patient but I begin to lose it about now. I look to my host grandmother and to Ayse for help. I put my hands on my face. He continues. I close my laptop and run out of the room. I begin to cry. I realize then I am going through culture shock. Right as I get to my room, my actual mother calls and I pick up. Ayse comes running but I just point to my phone and close my bedroom door. My mom calms me down. The grandmother comes and gives me my dictionary and then I lose it again. Then Ayse comes and asks me what's wrong. At this point I was so upset that I couldn't speak. I point to the word "aggressive" and to the living room. My sister calls and I ask Asye to leave. She leaves with my dictionary. My sister calms me down. Then I sit and breathe and the grandmother comes in and gives me a hug. If you know me, you know I do not like hugs. However, at this point it has been two weeks in Turkey without any human contact and the hug was calming. Ayse comes back in with a note in English that says, "he was not angry, calm down, I sorry, he left, dinner soon."
Later I go in for dinner and the grandmother gives me another hug. I notice the table is set for five people. The grandmother and I begin to eat and the visitor comes back. He says something to me. I smile and just look down and eat. At this point I am exhausted! I eat and go to my room. I talk to my sister one more time on the phone and get ready for bed. Then the 7-year-old asks me to play Monopoly and I explain that I am tired. Then Ayse comes to ask the same thing and I explain the same thing. It was only 8:30 PM but this was a hard day for me. I plug in my iPod to help me relax and fall asleep.
I knew before this experience that Turkish people are pushy and sit closer than people in the US. I know that it is just part of their culture. And after two weeks of being here I thought I was adjusted. Something about this small incident made me snap! I know the visitor was being harmless and was just curious. I know to him he was not being aggressive. But at that moment he was just too passionate. I have reflected and understand what happened and why it did. Culture shock is tough and I may go through another experience similar to this, but that is part of traveling and learning and I embrace moments like this for what they teach me about myself.
Visitor Number Three:
Tonight, we had five guests at our dinner table. Around 6 PM we had Ayse's cousin come and visit. He fixed the internet! I can now go online and post this message from my home! No more internet cafe's! However, the internet does not work on Ayse's laptop because she has Window's 7. Bummer. The cousin was very nice and interested in communicating with me like Amhet. He explained to me that he is an Engineer and for his job he is going back and forth between Iraq to Turkey. He called Iraq, "little America," which I found kind of funny and interesting to hear from this area of the world. At one point while we talked a news flash came on the TV about the president of Turkey and the referendum, which he is trying to pass in September. The referendum would make Turkey less secular, and would somehow effect doctors, lawyers, and teachers negatively (now that I have internet I can do more research). I asked Ayse and she said she is voting no, so is the grandmother, and the visitor. The visitor stayed for dinner and then left on his motorcycle.
Visitor(s) Number Four:
Tonight, around 8 PM (dinner time) four more people showed up. It was Ayse's youngest sister, Hava (which means weather in Turkish). She has a four-year-old daughter, a small baby, and a husband. They are visiting from Istanbul and staying the night. Although we have had other visitors, Ayse really scrubbed the house this morning and cooked a lot to get ready for her younger sister. I have never seen her work so hard and the house was already clean. Maybe it was because now a baby was coming; I don't know? We all had dinner together. This was the first time we ate in the dinning room.
First we ate potato soup. Then they had a ravioli like dish with meat and I had a plate of pasta and a light red sauce that was the size of my computer screen! Literally! Then the grandmother started scooping seven dolma (stuffed grape leaves) onto my plate, then she scooped tons of bean salad, and regular salad. They served me Fanta Soda and water -- I am not a soda drinker but I feel obligated to drink it when they give it to me. I was so stuffed and I was barely halfway through the meal. The grandmother has a bad habit of over-feeding me. The rest of the family began to notice that I was getting really full when the grandmother started to shuffle stuffed bell peppers onto my plate and pushed a loaf of bread at me! Welcome to my breakfast and dinner experience! For those of you who worry, I am not going hungry! Ayse explained that I could stop eating if I wanted to. So I did.
We then sat on the couch watching and talking. It was really cool to see the family interact. The grandmother was so happy to see her daughter and her grandchildren. The son-in-law even went to the Mosque with her. Around 10:30PM we had tea and three types of cake. I am "doydun," full! I will explain more about these visitors when more time elapses. Plus fun stories about my week to come later!
iyi gecelar (goodnight!)
Visitor Number One:
My host grandmother has five children. I have now met four of them. The first visitor came on Thursday night. His name is Amhet and at 35 years-old he is the second oldest child in my family. He only came to stay for two nights before he went to visit his other siblings in Istanbul. My host grandmother has two daughters living in Ankara, two in Istanbul, and Amhet. He lives in a town about a 7 hour bus ride away, where he works as a surgeon. Amet was a great visitor. He was genuinely interested in who I am and where I am from and tried very hard to communicate with me. Because of his schooling he knew a some English. We were able to have a simple conversations. He explained to me that when my host grandmother forces me to eat more and more when I am full, to just say no! He also explained to me how he already missed his children at his home. Because this is a two-bedroom apartment and there are already three people sharing my host mom's bed (her, the grandmother, and 7-year-old child), Amhet slept in the living room. As it turns out, both couches in the living room convert into beds! The first night he came we went to Emine's house for dinner. Emine is the second to youngest daughter in the family and is hosting another Pitzer student (Cydney). I will draw a family tree and profile the host family I am staying with for you in a later post... Must keep you on your toes somehow!
(Friday night I slept over at Emine's house to spend time with Cydney, to explore the city at night, and use their internet to Skype my family).
Visitor Number Two:
I either didn't quite catch this visitors name or blocked it out. Yesterday afternoon (Sunday), I had just got back from Emine's house and was sitting in the living room coloring with my coloring book with the 7-year-old. All of a sudden a man was sitting at the dinning room table with my host mom. I introduced myself and said nice-to-meet-you all in Turkish! He was wearing hospital scrubs. I asked him if he was a doctor or a nurse and he said a nurse that worked with my host mom. Later I was resting in my room and my host mom (I am just going to start calling her by her name: Ayse) came to get me and asked me to bring my computer. The visitor was setting up internet for her but could not get it to work. Although she had an internet signal, no web page could open. The same thing happened on my computer. However, I had Skype working and showed them. Then Skype failed and we turned off the computers to relax. Ayse and the visitor sit on the couch across from me and we all watched TV.
An hour or so goes by and I turn on my computer again. They start asking me how much money nurses make in the US. I explain that I have no idea. They get frustrated and ask again and I give them a ballpark number of 50,000 dollars. Given that all nurses make different amounts of money depending on their education, specialty, etc. I connect to Skype, and begin Skype-messaging my friend Misa who is currently in Korea on a Fulbright. I tell them I can ask her for a better estimate. The visitor runs over and starts asking why I can Skype but do not have Internet. I say, "I don't know." He asks more questions. I explain that I have Internet, but cannot connect to the web. I explain that for some reason with not email access I have Skype. He keeps asking me, "why?" I keep saying, "I don't know." And it goes on and on and on. He gets louder. He hijacks my dictionary so that I cannot use it to help respond. He waves his arms in the air and gets even louder. He is almost shouting! He is bombarding me with questions in Turkish. I respond, "I don't know!" He sits closer and keeps waving his arms. Then he starts touching my computer screen and pointing at it violently. I had been patient but I begin to lose it about now. I look to my host grandmother and to Ayse for help. I put my hands on my face. He continues. I close my laptop and run out of the room. I begin to cry. I realize then I am going through culture shock. Right as I get to my room, my actual mother calls and I pick up. Ayse comes running but I just point to my phone and close my bedroom door. My mom calms me down. The grandmother comes and gives me my dictionary and then I lose it again. Then Ayse comes and asks me what's wrong. At this point I was so upset that I couldn't speak. I point to the word "aggressive" and to the living room. My sister calls and I ask Asye to leave. She leaves with my dictionary. My sister calms me down. Then I sit and breathe and the grandmother comes in and gives me a hug. If you know me, you know I do not like hugs. However, at this point it has been two weeks in Turkey without any human contact and the hug was calming. Ayse comes back in with a note in English that says, "he was not angry, calm down, I sorry, he left, dinner soon."
Later I go in for dinner and the grandmother gives me another hug. I notice the table is set for five people. The grandmother and I begin to eat and the visitor comes back. He says something to me. I smile and just look down and eat. At this point I am exhausted! I eat and go to my room. I talk to my sister one more time on the phone and get ready for bed. Then the 7-year-old asks me to play Monopoly and I explain that I am tired. Then Ayse comes to ask the same thing and I explain the same thing. It was only 8:30 PM but this was a hard day for me. I plug in my iPod to help me relax and fall asleep.
I knew before this experience that Turkish people are pushy and sit closer than people in the US. I know that it is just part of their culture. And after two weeks of being here I thought I was adjusted. Something about this small incident made me snap! I know the visitor was being harmless and was just curious. I know to him he was not being aggressive. But at that moment he was just too passionate. I have reflected and understand what happened and why it did. Culture shock is tough and I may go through another experience similar to this, but that is part of traveling and learning and I embrace moments like this for what they teach me about myself.
Visitor Number Three:
Tonight, we had five guests at our dinner table. Around 6 PM we had Ayse's cousin come and visit. He fixed the internet! I can now go online and post this message from my home! No more internet cafe's! However, the internet does not work on Ayse's laptop because she has Window's 7. Bummer. The cousin was very nice and interested in communicating with me like Amhet. He explained to me that he is an Engineer and for his job he is going back and forth between Iraq to Turkey. He called Iraq, "little America," which I found kind of funny and interesting to hear from this area of the world. At one point while we talked a news flash came on the TV about the president of Turkey and the referendum, which he is trying to pass in September. The referendum would make Turkey less secular, and would somehow effect doctors, lawyers, and teachers negatively (now that I have internet I can do more research). I asked Ayse and she said she is voting no, so is the grandmother, and the visitor. The visitor stayed for dinner and then left on his motorcycle.
Visitor(s) Number Four:
Tonight, around 8 PM (dinner time) four more people showed up. It was Ayse's youngest sister, Hava (which means weather in Turkish). She has a four-year-old daughter, a small baby, and a husband. They are visiting from Istanbul and staying the night. Although we have had other visitors, Ayse really scrubbed the house this morning and cooked a lot to get ready for her younger sister. I have never seen her work so hard and the house was already clean. Maybe it was because now a baby was coming; I don't know? We all had dinner together. This was the first time we ate in the dinning room.
First we ate potato soup. Then they had a ravioli like dish with meat and I had a plate of pasta and a light red sauce that was the size of my computer screen! Literally! Then the grandmother started scooping seven dolma (stuffed grape leaves) onto my plate, then she scooped tons of bean salad, and regular salad. They served me Fanta Soda and water -- I am not a soda drinker but I feel obligated to drink it when they give it to me. I was so stuffed and I was barely halfway through the meal. The grandmother has a bad habit of over-feeding me. The rest of the family began to notice that I was getting really full when the grandmother started to shuffle stuffed bell peppers onto my plate and pushed a loaf of bread at me! Welcome to my breakfast and dinner experience! For those of you who worry, I am not going hungry! Ayse explained that I could stop eating if I wanted to. So I did.
We then sat on the couch watching and talking. It was really cool to see the family interact. The grandmother was so happy to see her daughter and her grandchildren. The son-in-law even went to the Mosque with her. Around 10:30PM we had tea and three types of cake. I am "doydun," full! I will explain more about these visitors when more time elapses. Plus fun stories about my week to come later!
iyi gecelar (goodnight!)
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Turkish Keyboards, Antalya and More Adventures!
İ am writing from another Internet cafe in Ankara. İt is very hard to type on this computer because it is in Turkish. The Turkish alphabet has 29 letters including two sets of i's, u's, o's, g's, and c's, which makes typing on a Turkish keyboard confusing. The alphabet itself is easy to learn because it uses Latin letters. However, most sounds are very different than the English pronunciation. For example, the letter c makes a je sound and the letter c with a line bellow it has a che sound. Similarly, i with a dot is an ee sound and i without a dot is an uh sound. İf you want to write an englısh c sound than you must write it with a k. For example, Canada would be Kanada. So far, İ have learned a lot of Turkish! Wednesday İ have my first test! İ still use a dictionary to converse with my host family, but hopefully won’t soon. Typically, we pass the dictionary back and forth pointing out words to make the other person understand.
Turkish class meets three days a week for four hours. This gives our group the ability to travel on the weekends. This weekend we went to a coastal town named Antalya. Antalya is a touristy town so it was perfect for our limited Turkish vocabulary and as a first trip. It was an eight hour bus ride heading south of Ankara. We left Thursday night and arrived Friday morning. The bus system in Turkey is much cheaper then the train and plane route. İn total a round trip ticket cost 60 TL. The bus is exactly like a plane where they serve refreshments and snacks.
When we got in, all seven of us Pitzer students meandered the streets of this very old city until we found a reasonable hostel. We stayed at Erkel Pansion for 30 TL a night. Thıs included seven beds, three bathrooms, a kıtchen, and two large balconies ın a great location. İt was a great deal! To get to the hostel we had to walk through an ancient Roman gate and small streets with tea vendors. On Friday, we were exhausted so in the afternoon we went to the beach. It was guzel or beautıful. Antalya is on the Mediterranean. The water was clear, blue, and clean. Those of you that know me well know that I do not swim without goggles! Wearing them and my bikini, İ swam deep and saw lots of white and black fish. The beach was rocky, but not jagged. All the rocks were smooth and round, and easy to walk on. İn my opinion, it was better than sand. Wıth the temperature 103+ degrees, the water was refreshing. At the end of the day, all seven of us had sunburns despıte the massive amounts of SPF 50 we put on. So tired, we went to bed around 10 PM and slept in the next day.
Originally, we had planned to explore caves and anchıert Roman ruıns on Saturday but we were warned by the manager of the hostel that their location would be even hotter and very far away. We were already in a constant sweat so we went to a waterfall instead. The waterfall was named Duden and was amazıng! When İ use my own computer at the University, İ will upload photos for you to see! There were caves that wrapped around and behind the waterfall and it was very cool (in both meanings). We relaxed there until maybe 6PM. İn Turkey, corn is considered a fruit, so before we left Duden we went to a corn stand. A man offered me about ten flavors to choose from and stıred my corn and put ıt ın a cup for me to eat. İ was adventurous and got corn wıth pepper and pomegranate jucıe. My frıend Carolıne got hers wıth hot chılı sauce and Cydeny got ıt wıth lemon juice - all good choıces. That night we went to dinner, walked around the city, and slept. Sunday we went back to Ankara.
Tonıght (8/23), I got back from Kizalay (downtown Ankara) and did my homework, played cards with my host brother and mother, and had dinner. After dinner my host annane or grandmother began to get ready to go to the Mosque, as she does every evening. İ asked my host mother if i could go and she was very surprısed that i was interested. As İ mentioned before, the family is celebrating Ramadan. I was allowed to go, but in order to do so İ had to put on leggıngs under my longest skirt, a long-sleeved shırt, and a headscarf. İ also had to remove my nail polish and jewelry. When I got there, İ dıd a ritual of washing my hands, feet, arms, eyes, nose, mouth, ears, and entıre face three tımes each. İt was very cool to see where my host grandmother goes every nıght at 9PM. The outing became a family and neighborhood affair. Usually, it is just the grandmother that goes and İ stay with my host brother. However, because İ went and my host mother was home she came and so dıd my brother. He had been playing in the street with the neıghbor chıldren and a frog. For some reason the chıldren wanted to come too and one even convınced her mother to go. It was a very small mosque, but one that I hear every night from my bedroom. As soon as we entered, I took my shoes off and went upstaırs to where the women sıt. The women went through the motıon of standing and kneeling repeatedly. I sat and watched. The chıldren got bored and started makıng noıse and bothered their mothers.
Multiple times everyday, İ hear the call to prayer from a mosque. I hear it at 4AM from my bedroom wındow (yes, it wakes me up everyday) and 10 AM ın my Turkısh class. The call is very beautiful and it is a story that is being read from the Quran. I thınk it is important that İ see the mosques and attend services here to better understand the people İ live amongst. Although İ have never actually read the Quran, İ have been taught throughout my education at the Jewish Day School, University Prep, and Pitzer College that there is a passage in the Quran that says that all religions should be respected - a good motto for my travels and lesson for the world!
Another cool place I saw last week was Ataturks Mausoleum. Ataturk was the founder of modern Turkey and led the revolution ın the 30’s. His mausoleum is larger than the Lıcoln Memorial ın Washington DC and had a gold encrusted cieling! İ also saw the largest mosque in Ankara, whıch can hold up to 110,000 people! İ went under the Mosque to buy groceries and a towel before my trıp. The store under the mosque is huge and similar to a Sears or Fred Meyer. İ thought it was ironic that while people were fasting and praying for Ramadan upstairs İ was getting dinner and shopping downstairs!
Well İ have tons more stories but this is about all İ have time to write. Just to reiterate photos and more stories will come later with more Internet access. Hope you are all doing well!
Hocakal! (goodbye)
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Marhaba!
Hi all! I am alive and well. I am writing from an internet cafe in Kizalay, which is downtown Ankara. Everyday İ wake up wıth the sun and take either the metro or a bus to the city for an intensive Turkısh class. So far, İ have learned a lot. The class is very fast paced. My host family is very nice, but does not speak any English. They live just outside the city in an apartment. There is a 7 year old son, 13 year old cousin, and grandmother. İ have only seen the mother once. They feed me very well! Everyday İ get breakfast, which is bread, cheese, olives, tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, and tea. I feel very bad eating in the morning because the grandmother prepares my food and she is practicing Ramadan. I eat anyway though. İn the evenıng we eat together and always have soup bread rice salad and some other vegetarian dısh. İ eat lunch in the city. I also probably drink tea 10 tımes a day. It is very good tasting, but so hot. It is hard to drink sometimes because the weather in Ankara is in the 100's and we do not have air conditioning. I am perpetually sweatıng.
İ will not have internet for another 3 weeks. After I get to school, I wıll fıll you ın more and be able to skype. This weekend İ am planning on going to a coastal town named Antalya. Hope you are all doıng well!
İ will not have internet for another 3 weeks. After I get to school, I wıll fıll you ın more and be able to skype. This weekend İ am planning on going to a coastal town named Antalya. Hope you are all doıng well!
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Greetings from Dallas!
Today has been quite an adventure, as traveling always is... This morning I woke up and left my house in Kirkland, Washington at 9:25 AM. My mom and I drove to REI (an outdoor sporting goods store) to pick up some extra luggage tags and a bag to put my hiking bag in so that I could check it. I arrived at the airport to find an enormous line for security! With 45 minutes to go until boarding I was concerned. Right as I was able to see the metal detector in front of me, a security officer came over to the 20 people in front of me and said that the machines were broken. At this point, I started to wonder if the "Friday the 13th" superstition had some truth to it. The security officer then funneled us to a machine behind us (in Sea-Tac Airport to get to Gate N the security machines are staggered). I had about 20 minutes left before boarding and I still needed to take the tram! Luckily, I was far enough back in the line that I was funneled through first! I made it to the plane on time and even had a minute to spare to get a bottle of water!
Now I am in Dallas, Texas. They say that everything is bigger and better in Texas… Well everything is definitely bigger! After boarding my plane in Seattle, the couple that sat next to me introduced themselves. They were very kind and had the true Texas cheer. The husband said to me, “well I hope the plane can take off. On my Alaskan cruise I sure ate a lot!” Like the rest of the people sitting around me, he was a larger man. This is real America for you - my hotel is surrounded by steakhouses and burger joints!
It was 104 degrees and humid this afternoon in Dallas. Luckily it will be cooler when I arrive in Ankara on Sunday… 98 degrees (but no humidity)! Tomorrow, I plan to leave my hotel around 11 AM to navigate the Dallas airport. Below is my itinerary:
Leave Dallas on Saturday at 4:20 PM
Arrive in Frankfurt on Sunday at 9:15 AM
Leave Frankfurt on Sunday at 3 PM
Arrive in Ankara on Sunday at 7:20 PM
*Please note that I will be going through many time zones, so the flights are not as long as they seem.
When I arrive in Ankara, the Pitzer Coordinator in Turkey will take me to my host family. I am not sure yet if I will have Internet access at their house so stay tuned and be patient.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Two more weeks!
Hello all! Today I got news about my host family in Turkey. I will be living with a single nurse, her son, and a grandmother. The best part about this is if I get sick I have someone to take care of me (but hopefully that wont happen). I do not know the ages of any of the family members, but I will keep you posted. Either my host family or my Turkish college advisor will pick me up from the airport on August 15th. Today I also got two of 5 shots I need for Turkey and Nepal. After two more rabies shots I will be set for life! Hopefully wild dogs will be more afraid of me than I am of them and the shots will never be put to use. This Friday, July 30th I road-trip back to Seattle. Two more weeks until take-off and I cannot wait!
Monday, June 28, 2010
When do I leave?
My first plane leaves Seattle on August 13th. I will be off to Ankara, Turkey via Dallas, Frankfurt, and Istanbul!
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